When will she call?

So here I sit at work yet again, and I'm in such a grumpy mood...go figure! I got a call from my dad today and he asked if I'd heard from the baby (lil sister) I told him no, he thought she would have called by now to tell me she's moving to Seattle Washington on the 19th. Well she hasn't, and that really pi&&#& me off. She's the baby of the family and has always lived at home, and she just decides one day to move clear across the country (we live in Ma.). I'm a little confused? DUH? Would love to know what's going on in her head...I know she needs to live her own life and she is 22, but I'm not ready for her to move that far away, not yet, you may think I'm being selfish, but the real reason I don't want her to go is our dad. His health is failing and failing fast, he needs a heart transplant but he's getting worse by the day and is no longer strong enough for the surgery, so we all know that time is of the essence, I just don't want her to move and then have something happen and not have her here. I also realize that I have gotten married and moved 30 miles away, so I don't watch him get worse daily, and I know that it must weigh on her but, I'm truly afraid that she is going to regret her decision if something happens. My dad has always taught us that you should live for today and worry about tomorrow when it gets here and not before; and this is how he is living his life, which is great, but I still have this sick feeling in the pit of stomach that this is a HUGE mistake. I also know that I can not live her life for her but, again I can't help but feel this is not good. I'm also a bit upset that she chose to leave while we are away...she and I are extremely close so this frightens me that she would leave w/o saying good-bye....Is she afraid that I would make her stay? I would never do that, I want her to be a wonderful independent women, but I also want her never to regret her decisions in life. She is a wonderful, beautiful girl and all I want for her is the best life has to offer. She deserves the world...she was adopted into our family straight from the delivery room, and has been special to us ever since...she is not looking for her biological parents, she knows who they are and has a relationship with them, which I thank my parents for, they have been very open with her since she was old enough to understand the situation. Just needed to vent as I stated she is the baby and 11 yrs younger so I guess this is what it feels like when a mom has to say goodbye...she is our baby and always will be...
Misfit if you read this, I love you, miss you already, and please be careful...call often, again I love you...love Mosi ...... XoXo